Defining Success: My Personal Journey in Weightlifting

I began my weightlifting journey in 2014. Initially, I could hardly discern my skill level, relying heavily on comparisons with other athletes and feedback from coaches. It took time for me to truly understand the nuances of the sport.

As I spent more time weightlifting, I became better at evaluating my own strengths and weaknesses. One realization that struck me was that while I may not be inherently gifted, I possess a relentless drive and work ethic.

I've encountered coaches who think virtually any athlete could be the "Lebron James" of weightlifting. Conversely, some believe only a handful are destined for greatness. This dichotomy fascinates me.

There's merit to being identified as a potential star early on. It often becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy: more coaching, attention, and resources naturally translate into better performance. However, while the extra support is undeniably advantageous, natural talent is pivotal. Some individuals are inherently suited for specific sports, and when their innate ability is honed with dedication and superior coaching, they can achieve unparalleled success.

Early in my weightlifting career, my second coach believed I had the potential for the Olympics. Given the landscape of the sport then, it seemed plausible. After all, by 2016, even with my modest skills, I reached the preliminary round of the Olympic Trials.

But since then, the landscape of the sport, including qualifying procedures and weight categories, has evolved dramatically.

My perspective has matured with age, influencing how I perceive my own accomplishments. For instance, I've clinched titles at both the Nationals and the American Open. While these victories brought pride, I've learned to view them in two lights:

1. **Intrinsic Value:** The medals I've earned are symbols of my dedication and determination. Although I'm not the most decorated lifter, each medal holds its own value.

2. **Relative Value:** Some coaches have hinted that had their athletes competed, I might not have won. But success in sports is contingent on a multitude of factors. Athletes can't bank on hypotheticals.

It's a trap to constantly seek validation through accolades. Even after achieving something monumental, there's always another milestone beckoning. I came to understand that the quest for success in sports can be unending. It's crucial to define personal happiness rather than let societal expectations dictate it.

And so, I invite you to accompany me on my journey.

My current objective? To give my all, every single day. Depending on the day, this might translate to a rank, a medal, or simply personal growth. But my self-worth is independent of the weight I lift; it's more about resilience and my commitment to the sport.

With each passing year, while I jest about "aging out," I genuinely look forward to continuing this journey, even if the trajectory changes. I’m eager to acquire new skills and share my insights with my athletes and followers.

My experience as a Personal Trainer has bestowed me with invaluable perspectives. Too often, we undermine our achievements, obsessing over others' perceived success. It's essential to remember that everyone's journey is unique.

Although I'm only human, prone to bouts of frustration and self-doubt, I've learned the importance of owning my journey and not letting external opinions dictate its worth.